The friend who borrowed the money brought two thirds of it back.  He did not end up needing all of it, so he brought what he hadn’t spent back.  Interestingly, the reason he cited for bring it back was that he didn’t want to trust himself to come up with the entire sum. He seems to know himself well enough to figure out how to do damage control. While I desperately want to help them with the budgeting aspect, there is really little I can do, other than recommend books or websites. I will offer them suggestions when they ask, but I will really endeavor NOT to give advice unless asked.  It’s terribly hard, though, when there are so many things they could change if they so chose.  However, ultimately, it’s none of my business, and I will try not to be a busybody.  This resolution applies to other folks as well.  Today, I learned that other people may surprise you when you’re thinking the worst.

One Response to “And sometimes, they surprise you”

1. Laura says:

   January 25, 2010 at 9:34 am

   This is the best news I’ve heard today…okay it’s early!!
   So happy for you!